Neil: I contacted the real Kitty Pryde's GodDaughter who told me she is not married.

Me: Just realizing what an odd cascade of dominoes has led to the asking and answering of this question. Back in 1973, when the real Kitty told me to "go ahead" and use her name if the opportunity ever arose, I was not yet in comics as a full-time pro, and the levels to which I would rise, the prominence of the character that would bear her name, and the global sprawl of the internet could not even have been imagined!