Questions should be constructed for a "Yes" or "No" response to be sufficient. 

Avoid the words "simple", "easy", "just" and any other synonym which minimizes what I or someone else has contributed or will contribute.

If you what to have a conversation, lead with "Tell me about how ..."

If you don't have a relationship with me or someone, preface the topic with "Can i engage you in a conversation about...?"

If the topic is complicated, provide background, your own thoughts and suppositions or premise. By doing so, you might find the answer.