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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 12:30pm | IP Logged | 1 post reply

Something that was drilled into my tiny brain by my ninth grade English teacher is that there is a degree of courtesy involved any time we list activities with one or more other people. We should list them first.

Thus, it’s not “me and Bob” but “Bob and me”. (Or “Bob and I”.)

Hardly anyone follows this rule, but it bugs the heck out of me when I see or hear the misuse.

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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 12:44pm | IP Logged | 2 post reply

Don’t come to the south…

The one that REALLY gets my goat recently is people writing “could of” or
“would of” instead of the actual contractions they actually saying. Even in
articles, nowadays. It’s like grammar has been dropped from any kind of
writing curriculum these people may have graduated from.

And apparently, this is NOT an easy mistake to make on an iPhone. It’s
taken me 10 minutes to get the autocorrect to stop changing “of” to “have”
like it’s supposed to be.
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 1:21pm | IP Logged | 3 post reply

Could/should/would of annoys me so much. (Ha! I just had to fight with the latest version of iPhone’s autocorrect as it was aggressively fixing it. Skynet is ready to start Judgement Day.)

My latest peeve is people using I’s as the possessive.
“Bob and I’s book” instead of “Bob and my book”
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 1:32pm | IP Logged | 4 post reply

Yeah, I also was told often about that polite usage, and I've always used it.  

The incorrect usage of "myself" also drives me nuts.  
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 1:45pm | IP Logged | 5 post reply

I wonder how much of this is even taught anymore?
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 1:48pm | IP Logged | 6 post reply

"Bobby McGee & Me"? 🤔

It wouldn't work as a song lyric. ..... 😊
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 1:58pm | IP Logged | 7 post reply

Dialect takes liberties. Witness Ben Grimm!
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 2:13pm | IP Logged | 8 post reply

Speaking of courteous expression, I've never found myself able to like the sound of "I'm good" in place of "no, thank you" to decline an offer.
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 2:17pm | IP Logged | 9 post reply

I find myself annoyed by how “no problem” has replaced “you’re welcome”.
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Posted: 10 April 2026 at 2:48pm | IP Logged | 10 post reply

Thirty years ago, I started my career in tech by working phone support of laptop users.  At first, most of my customers were well spoken and articulate.  As time went on and the cost of laptops went down, the voice on the other end changed.

I found I had an interesting ability though.  Without thinking, I would pick up the speech mannerisms of the people I spoke to.It did not matter if they were from Boston or the deep south, I was speaking to them on their level and no one ever though I was mocking them.  Not one complaint.  My Manager referred to me as a social chamelion.

The grammar part was the oddest part, as while I understand and try to follow the rules in my normal discussions, even correcting others in some situations.  But in those moments where I was conversing with the customers, I found nothing wrong with speaking wrong while relating to the customer.  It was like someone with a stutter singing a song.  It just flowed.
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