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Michael Roberts
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Posted: 03 May 2026 at 1:37pm | IP Logged | 1 post reply

During the Me Too movement, there was a very valid reckoning regarding the power imbalances that can occur in age-gap relationships, particularly ones involving relationships that started when the younger partner was in their late teens/early 20s. I remember watching this cultural shift play out in real-time with the show RIVERDALE, where the first season had a storyline involving a student having sex with his teacher, and it was played for sex appeal. Five or six seasons later, referring back to that same storyline, the characters were saying, “Oh, you were a victim! You were groomed!”

There has been a strange confluence between this legitimate reevaluation of these specific types of age-gap relationships, a largely Conservative moral panic regarding pedophilia and human trafficking (while turning a blind eye to people involved with actual human traffickers), and a set of terminally online Gen Zers that likes to infantilize themselves, and it leads to some really weird takes like, “Is a 35 year old dating a 29 year old grooming?”


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My maternal great grandmother was 28 when she married my great grandfather, 64. They went on to have four children who lived to adulthood.

This was in the 1890s, when people, it seems, were more relaxed about such things.

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My father was 21 years older than my mother and I don’t remember a time that I ever thought of it as strange.
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My father was a year older than my mother, and somehow that locked in my mind that was the ideal gap. Then I married a woman six years older than me!
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