Posted: 13 August 2009 at 10:28am | IP Logged | 11
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So I tried to wade through the language and found something like this:
Beware that in comics community situations where you find a lot of kids hanging out, such as conventions or at comics stores (new or second hand), kids can often be vulnerable to the attentions of pedophiles.
These pedophiles will often try to insert themselves into groups of kids they find attractive and try to seem cool, friendly and knowledgable in the hobby.
They will often try to invite kids into private settings, to show them rare comics or "discuss" comics, essentially luring them away from the central and public comics related meeting place. They will try to engage kids in "games" involving physical contact or conversations relating to the physical attractiveness of comics characters.
They will try to appear knowledgable or opinionated on comics, but will focus unduly on things most other comics collectors would consider irrelevant or meaningless and prefer inserting themselves into stories and discussing that instead "If I were the Hulk ..." They're faking it and sooner or later it might show.
When discussing expensive or unobtainable comics with kids, instead of urging moderation in spending etc. the pedophile will often encourage a lot of spending on comic and "need" for high price items. He will then offer such unobtainable items as "payment" for "services".
Now, I think we all know that there are a lot of maladjusted people in the hobby with a skewed sense of boundaries and poor social skills, but I'm not sure you'll find that many pedophiles there. At least not the predatory ones, the "hunters". Some sad, disturbed individuals who "relieve their tension" with the aid of Lolicon, probably.
I know several people into comics collecting who would meet Lars' criteria but I would not be as quick as he seems to be to label them pedophiles.
That being said, If someone acts really weird and makes you uncomfortable, even if it's just because they're painfully shy or socially awkward, it's probably wise not to be alone with them in any case. Not necessarily on the presumption that they're a threat, but because the awkwardness of the situation might cause unnecessary insults or misunderstandings.
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